It doesn’t matter if you are single and looking for a fling or if you are in a long-term committed relationship you are entitled to a fun and exciting sex life. So, don’t leave everything only in the fantasy realm, you should be able to introduce some new and exciting sex practices that you have been thinking about for ages. The most important thing is being able to experience that which you have considered was your dream sexual experience thus far. Whether it is connecting with your preferred pornstars via adult Snapchat usernames or introducing specific kinks into your bedroom.
And if you need help setting everything up to be just right, here are some great pieces of advice as to how you can go about introducing some of the more common sex practices into your love life.
Bondage is one of the most common sexual fantasies and one that is the easiest to introduce in the bedroom. Of course, with the appearance of the Fifty Shades of Grey book and later the movie, it has entered mainstream quite quickly. So, getting your partner to try it is not that big of a stretch. However, you need to keep in mind that there is a certain art to bondage, so it is important to do it right. Also, you need to be clear on which type of practices you have been fantasizing about. If it’s just a silk scarf and some light hand bondage, it is more than easy to execute, as long as your partner and you have previously discussed it. Now, the more intricate art of bondage such as the Japanese shibari, takes a lot more practice but it also gives far more exciting results in the pleasure department. You need to decide whether you are the top, the one using the ropes, or the bottom, the one being bound. In case you are the bottom make sure that when you play, you pay attention to any tingling, numbness, coldness or burning in your limbs, especially your hands and fingers, and then notify your top ASAP. That way you can avoid injury or nerve damage.
No, we don’t mean just watching porn together, although it has some benefits on its own. We mean finding different sources of fresh and engaging adult content. This is where Snapchat comes into play. You can decide which accounts you want to follow based on your personal preferences.
For example, BBW Snapchat usernames are perfect for content if you love a busty woman. You can check the accounts you subscribe to daily and we are sure there will be no lack of quality content. It is usually very raw and revealing, especially because it is unscripted and meant to please the fans who are checking in daily.
Another option is getting your fill of the more taboo or kink variety with Femboy Snapchat usernames or teen Snapchat usernames. A bit of fresh content daily can be just what you need to fulfill your personal fantasies. And who knows, maybe you will get some new ideas on what you can try in the bedroom. It is always fun when we can experiment.
No, not just a gentle slap on the cheeks that you might practice during your regular bedroom interactions. There is an actual art to spanking and it can become an intricate game that you might want to play with your partner. Whether you have fantasized about spanking, or rather being spanked, you first need to ensure that both you and your partner are aware what is acceptable and what isn’t when it comes to this particular sex practice. Also, you should agree on a safe word if at any point things get uncomfortable on unpleasantly painful. Now, that you have set the stage, so to speak, it is time to do some experimenting. Start with determining the strength you need to apply when spanking, different people have different tolerance levels, maybe you will get immense pleasure from some gentle spanks, or your partner will have to put their back into it for you to be satisfied. If you want, you can always use additional sex aids like whips to make the whole practice that much more interesting. Sex whips are made to induce pleasure and not hurt the bottom. But, much like with just hands, you need to dictate the strength to ensure the highest possible degree of pleasure.
If your fantasy includes more than one willing participant, you should go for it. If you are single, you can browse some renowned websites where people are looking for similar experiences so that you can fulfill your fantasy. On the other hand, if you are dating someone, make sure you sit them down and openly discuss your fantasy. Explain that it is a physical thing, not an emotional one, and you might be pleasantly surprised with the answer you get. You should also be prepared for the possibility of your partner saying no, after all not everyone has the same level of sexual freedom and is comfortable with different practices. And introducing a third person might be a bit too much for them. But, with a bit of luck, your partner might end up being far more interested than you initially anticipated. Now, it is important that, yet again, you make the whole process clear. Meaning what is and isn’t permitted in the interaction. Most couples reserve the kissing just for themselves. Others limit the positions and practices they are willing to try out with that third person. You need to make sure that your wishes and the wishes of your partner are honored, as are those of the third person you bring into the mix.
You are now ready to make your sex fantasy a reality. As you can see, with open communication and clearly stated wishes you can make your sex life that much more fun and satisfying.